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Vendor tipping guide: who to tip and how much

Tips are the easiest part of your wedding budget to forget until the day itself, when someone asks who's handling the DJ's envelope. A little prep now saves an awkward scramble later and makes sure the people who made your day run smoothly feel appreciated.

Who typically gets tipped

Vendors who work for themselves (many photographers, florists, and small-business officiants) usually don't expect tips, while staff working for a company often do. Good default amounts: hair/makeup 15-20%, catering staff 15-20% (check your contract for included gratuity first), delivery/setup crews and drivers 15-20%, bartenders $1-2 per guest or 10-15% of the bar tab, delivery or setup drivers $10-20 each, and DJs or band members $50-150 per person. Coordinators or planners typically get $100-500 based on how much they handled. Business owners who set their own pricing (your photographer, planner, or florist if they own the company) don't require a tip; a cash bonus or handwritten note is a thoughtful extra if they went above and beyond, but it's optional.

Prep envelopes ahead of time

Two weeks before the wedding, list every vendor, their tip amount, and cash denominations needed. Buy plain envelopes, label each with the vendor's name, and seal the cash inside. Keep a small buffer of extra small bills in case a vendor brings an assistant you didn't budget for.

Delegate distribution

You'll be busy, so hand the envelopes to your day-of coordinator, best man, or a trusted family member with a simple list of who gets what and when (many are handed out at the end of the night). This avoids the common mistake of forgotten tips or double-tipping the same vendor.

Key Takeaways

Check contracts first: some caterers and venues already build gratuity into the bill
Budget 1-2% of your total wedding cost for tips across all vendors
Label and prep cash envelopes two weeks before the wedding
Assign one trusted person to distribute tips so it's not on you
Business owners (many photographers/florists) don't require tips, but staff usually do

Related Tips

Track Vendor Gratuities in Your Budget

Budget for and track gratuity/tips for wedding vendors, typically distributed on the wedding day. Standard gratuity guidelines: Catering staff (15-20% if not included in contract), Bartenders ($50-$100 per bartender or 10-15% of bar bill), Delivery/setup crew ($10-$20 per person), Musicians/Band ($25-$50 per member), DJ ($50-$150), Hair stylist ($20-$25% of service), Makeup artist (20-25% of service), Transportation drivers (15-20% of bill). Often NOT tipped: Venue coordinator, photographer, florist, planner (these are business owners, but optional gift appreciated). Assign someone trustworthy (best man, parent) to distribute tips in envelopes during the event.

Read vendor contracts before signing

Every vendor contract should clearly state: services provided, timeline, cancellation policy, payment schedule, what happens if vendor can't deliver, overtime rates, and who owns the final product (photos/video). Never sign same-day. Take contracts home, read carefully, negotiate unclear terms.

Maintain Detailed Vendor Contact List

Create a vendor management system that records: company name, contact person, phone number, email, website, services provided, quote amount, deposit paid, balance due, payment due dates, contract signed date, and notes about what you discussed or agreed upon. Add columns for status (researching/contacted/met/booked/paid in full) to track your progress. Include all communications and special requests. This becomes your master reference during planning and essential for day-of coordination. Also note backup contacts for each vendor and emergency phone numbers.

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