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Establish Healthy Boundaries with Family During Planning

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Wedding planning can bring out family drama and overbearing relatives. Set clear boundaries early by communicating your expectations, limits, and decision-making authority. It's okay to limit contact with toxic family members or create a 'Shit People Suggest' spreadsheet to track (and laugh about) unwanted advice. Remember: this is your wedding day, and you have the right to surround yourself with supportive people.

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Create a Master Wedding Planning Timeline

Start planning 12-18 months before your wedding date. Key milestones: 12 months - book venue and photographer; 9 months - book caterer and entertainment; 6 months - order dress and send save-the-dates; 3 months - finalize menu and send invitations; 1 month - final vendor meetings and create seating chart. Use a shared spreadsheet or wedding planning app to track all tasks and deadlines.

Book Your Top Priority Vendors First

The most in-demand vendors (venue, photographer, videographer, caterer) book up 12-18 months in advance, especially for peak season dates. Once you set your date, immediately reach out to your must-have vendors. If your dream photographer is available, build your day around their schedule. Popular venues often only have a few Saturday dates available per year.

Create a Shared Wedding Email and File System

Set up a dedicated email address (like yournames.wedding@gmail.com) for all vendor communication. This keeps everything organized and accessible to both partners. Create a cloud folder (Google Drive, Dropbox) with subfolders for: contracts, inspiration, guest list, budget tracker, and vendor communications. This prevents important details from getting lost in personal inboxes.

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