Make a prioritized list of 10-15 must-have photos (specific family groupings, venue details, special moments) for your photographer. Don't micromanage every shot—they're the pro—but ensure they capture what matters most to you. Share this 2 weeks before the wedding.
Source: www.theknot.com
A first look (seeing each other before the ceremony) allows you to capture couple and wedding party photos before guests arrive, meaning you won't miss cocktail hour. You'll be more relaxed for photos, have better lighting earlier in the day, and get to spend more time with guests during the reception. It also creates an intimate moment between just the two of you before the whirlwind begins.
While your photographer knows standard shots, create a list of 10-15 must-have photos specific to your family and priorities: specific family combinations (especially if divorced/remarried parents), detail shots of heirlooms, your venue's best angles, and any special moments you've planned. Also create a list of VIP guests your photographer should prioritize. This ensures nothing important is missed during the hectic day.
A first look before the ceremony allows you to take couple and wedding party photos before guests arrive, so you can actually enjoy cocktail hour. It also reduces stress and gives you a private moment. You'll still have the aisle reveal—guests' reactions are what matter.
Weddy helps you organize all aspects of your wedding planning in one beautiful, easy-to-use platform.
Get Started with Weddy